Although this usually goes against most social dating norms, taking the time to ask a special guy out is not as bad as some people make it seem. In fact, some men have found it flattering that a woman chose to pursue them instead of the other way around. Most women usually shy away from the idea due to fear of rejection. But how long are you truly willing to wait for him to make the first move? Ladies, it is time to go for what you want. Take a peek at some of our tips to help you execute this mission successfully.
1. Break The Ice. A casual “hello” every time you run into him should do the trick. As the days pass by, you can slowly trickle in more conversation.
2. Be Confident. There is nothing sexier than a woman that is confident in her own skin. Wear your confidence and it will show
3. Ask For His Number. After a few encounters, take the initiative to ask for his number. Depending on each situation, your approach may be different. However, the first step in getting to know someone is being able to communicate with them outside of your normal environment (school, work, etc..).
4. Suggest That The Two of You Hang Out. After engaging in a few conversations, feel free to suggest that you two spend some extra time together. If you plan on asking him in person, make sure he is alone and free of any pressure. In the event that he says no, do not become angry. He might just need time to think it over so carry some patience. If he says yes, try to have somewhere already in mind and make sure that it is something you know he will have an interest in.